There are things you refuse to release, and it isn't because they benefit you. It's because they are familiar, and you cling to them tightly. Even the thought of casting them aside makes you feel weak. We aren't talking about material things. We are delving into your mindset, behaviours and habits, the ones that have driven their thorns so deep that you can't imagine being anyone other than who you have always been.
So why do you keep holding on to a person you no longer are, especially when she leaves you dissatisfied? Change is a part of life, and you need to realise that. You may not want to, but it is in your best interest to let go of who you were. Not simply because she no longer suits you, but because the person you want to become, with the aspirations you hold, is far dearer to you.
Yes, she may not have been the best version of you. And the parts of you that you cling to, you cling to out of desperation and familiarity. But you don't have to abandon them entirely. You can keep them tucked away safely while you go forward and bring out the person you have always wanted to be.
Pisces, understand that the person you aspire to be is not just a better version of you, but one with the successes you desire: accomplishments, a calmer mind, greater self-control and genuine ambition. All you need to reach that standard is to push aside the restraints of the past and find the elements that align with your goals.
Seek out your successful self, but first, give up the hindrances of the past that are still haunting you.
