Kompal Matta Kapoor in her mother's yellow satin sari at her haldi function Kompal Matta Kapoor
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How Kompal Matta Kapoor Wove Her Mother’s Legacy Into Her Haldi Function

In our continued series, ‘Threads of Tradition’, creative producer Kompal Matta Kapoor goes down memory lane to share how wearing her mother’s sari at her own haldi felt like a beautiful continuation of family love and memory

Ismat Tahseen

Digital creator Kompal Matta Kapoor chose her mother’s yellow satin wedding sari for her haldi, turning bridal fashion into a deeply personal narrative. Preserved in its original form and styled with statement jewellery, the heirloom became a living bridge between generations, symbolising continuity of love, family memory and a growing legacy she hopes future brides will carry forward.

Bridal fashion today is about storytelling and personalisation as much as it is about seeking to make a style statement. And more than ever, women are looking to wear garments that carry vestiges of family, love and tradition, whether through a dupatta, a sari or a piece of jewellery.

For digital content creator and creative producer, Brew Skin, Kompal Matta Kapoor, her wedding day outfit followed just that notion. As a bride-to-be, she chose to wear her mother’s yellow satin sari for her haldi function, bringing a touch of vintage charm into the present. The beautiful original wedding sari worn by Kompal, transformed a beautiful piece of fabric into a living bridge between generations.

In a vibrant hue, the drape held decades of precious memories and the emotional value of a chapter started long ago. By stepping into the very garment her mother wore to begin her own married life, Kompal created a beautiful continuation of love, legacy, and family history. She tells Manifest all about it.

Kompal at her haldi function

Tell us about the heirloom piece you chose to wear. What memories do you associate with it?

Kompal Matta Kapoor (KMK): I chose to wear my mother’s wedding sari, a piece she wore on her wedding day. It has quietly held decades of memories within its folds. The sari has a timeless, traditional character that immediately stood out to me. I remember seeing my mother in it and being drawn to the way she looked in it, even before I fully understood what the sari represented. As I grew older, I began to understand that this was the sari she had worn when she was beginning a completely new chapter of her life. Wearing that same piece during my own wedding festivities, for my haldi function, felt like a beautiful continuation of that story, almost as if one generation was passing something meaningful on to the next.

What did the heirloom symbolise for you beyond its aesthetic appeal?

(KMK): It wasn’t just about how it looked. For me, it symbolised continuity of love, family, and shared experiences. It felt like carrying a part of my mother’s journey into my own, almost like her presence was stitched into every thread. There’s something grounding about wearing something that already has a story. It wasn’t just about the outfit; it was about connection and memory.

Did you preserve the heirloom in its original form, or was it redesigned for your wedding? Tell us about the transformation.

(KMK): I kept the sari largely as it was because I didn’t want to lose its original character. I didn’t want to redesign or modernise the piece itself. Instead, I made small changes in how I styled it for my haldi, particularly by pairing it with a blouse that felt more like me. That way, the sari remained connected to my mother and her wedding, while the styling allowed me to bring my own personality into it. I wanted it to sit somewhere between her time and mine.

How did you style the heirloom piece to complement your overall bridal aesthetic?

(KMK): I kept the styling simple and balanced because I wanted the sari to remain the focus. I paired it with a blouse that felt more like me and chose special jewellery and a look that felt timeless rather than trendy. Since I wore it for my haldi, I wanted the styling to feel celebratory while still allowing the sari to stand out. I didn’t want anything to overpower the original piece or make it feel like something completely different from what my mother had worn. The idea was to let the sari shine while using the styling to make the overall look feel like me.

Kompal Matta Kapoor

In a world of custom couture and new bridal collections, why was it important for you to include something with a past?

(KMK): With so much focus on creating something new, wearing something that already had a story felt more meaningful to me. This sari had already been part of my mother’s life and her wedding, and then became part of my own wedding festivities. There was something very special about knowing that the same piece had witnessed one beginning in our family and was now becoming part of another. It was a way of bringing something from her past into my own new beginning, rather than starting the story completely from scratch.

Do you think heirloom dressing is becoming a new expression of luxury?

(KMK) I think so. Luxury today feels less about something brand new and more about something that has meaning. Heirlooms bring a kind of emotional value that you just can’t recreate. Knowing that something has been part of your family’s story for years gives it a value beyond how much it costs or how new it is.

Do you hope to pass this piece on to future generations? What story would you want it to carry?

(KMK): Yes, definitely. I’d love for it to keep moving forward, carrying different stories with each person who wears it. My mother wore it when she began her own journey, I wore it during my own wedding festivities as I began mine, and I’d love for someone in the next generation to add their own chapter to it. I hope it always represents love, family, and the idea that some things are worth holding on to. For me, that is what makes an heirloom special, it doesn’t just preserve the past; it keeps growing with every person who wears it.